Dear Friend,

 

Have things been getting out of hand at home?  Do you feel overwhelmed, scared, or the least bit fed-up with constant arguing with your parent’s, your siblings, or even your self over what to do about your Mom or Dad’s condition?

 

If you’ve even thought about answering “yes” to any of these questions, or can relate to any of the painstaking family problems adult children must face when their aging parent can no longer make decisions for themselves, then this may be the most important message you will ever read.

 

Your aging parent’s condition can ripple conflict through your family life like a boulder in a small pond, and resolving this conflict is your top priority before any real progress can be made.  Whether you’re an only child, the oldest of three, the middle child in a big family – none of this matters.  The only thing that matters is the quality of communication in your family, and like it or not, it’s up to you to take action to resolve it.

My name is Carolyn Rosenblatt, and after 10 years of nursing and 30 years of law, I’ve seen countless family members destroy each other as their parents grew old and important decisions had to be made….which is why I personally counsel families – just like yours – to this very day…helping them overcome potential disasters before they even start.

In my years of mediating family conflicts, I’ve discovered that a few good pieces of information can save you untold heartache for years to come.  But it’s not just my own experience that has led me to this life-saving conclusion…

No.  I also work with my husband (who is a psychologist) with over 30 years of experience, too, and between the two of us, we have tackled family conflicts from every angle possible.  Together, we’ve put nursing knowledge with legal knowledge and experience and added the bonus of a licensed doctor of psychology together to take on family mediation in our own unique (and results driven) way.

In my long personal journey through this field, I have learned – often times the hard way – what works in solving family conflicts, what doesn’t, and what to do along every step of the way.  Now you can have all of my professional mediation experience (along with my nursing and legal background involving elders) condensed into a hyper-efficient, laser focused guide on tackling this burden – head on – with less interference or trouble than you could possibly imagine!

 

In my short-cut heavy straight-to-the-point eBook volume “How To Handle Family Conflicts About Elders” I reveal years upon years of combined experience (that you can use quickly…and on your own) to resolve most of your family conflicts over elders before they become huge problems for years to come.

You will learn things like:

• How to stay rational during feelings of crisis and make the best decisions possible for Mom or Dad!
  
  
• The First 5 people you can turn to immediately if family conflict gets out of control! (Note: These people are right under your nose…but only if you know where to look)
  
  
• The Top Three emotional reactions “only” adult children subconsciously have with aging parent conflicts and how to prevent these feelings from thwarting your conflict resolution before the topic ever gets brought up!
  
  
• How to search and quickly find trusted care giving resources online (or offline) to find the help you need…especially if you are forced to manage on your own!
  
  
• How To Approach irresponsible siblings – no matter how much you may disagree – on shared aging parent issues with as little drama as humanly possible!
  
  
• How to manage conflicts with long distance siblings!  (Hint – This is especially important if you are the only one seemingly responsible for your parent’s current conditions)
  
  
• How to set aside sibling rivalry and focus on your parent as the only thing that matters…like your Mom or Dad deserves!
  
  
• How to efficiently manage expectations from siblings so that you no longer feel like the only one responsible!
  
  
• The #1 Thing you can do right now to manage your own mental health when dealing with a difficult brother or sister!
  
  
• How to locate care giving resources in your area fast…no matter what financial situation you’re in!
  
  
• How to hire help WITHOUT feelings of anger or resentment from your aging Mom or Dad, what to say, and why!
  
  
• The secret “leader” technique for controlling conflict in any elder related family conflict and how to implement it smoothly – without confrontation!
  
  
• How to get a professional assessment of your parent’s situation no matter what level of income you may have!  (Note – This is highly recommended for smart conflict resolution, and now made easier than ever before)
  
  
• How to avoid conflict through “advance planning” techniques that will slash your stress level by half or more!
  
  
• How to devise a living will that will benefit every person in your family, where to set it up, and what to expect every step of the way!
  
  
• How to use a mediator to resolve even your toughest aging parent conflicts…no matter how bad they may seem right now!
  
  
• The Top Three places to find a professional mediator, the most important qualification to look for, and how to find the right specialist as fast as humanly possible!
  
  
• Mediator Myth’s Exposed:  Everything you need to know about a mediator’s professional (and personal) boundaries!  (Note – If you’ve considered hiring professional mediation, this section is mandatory reading)
  
  
• The little-known and poorly understood difference between mediation and arbitration, when each is required and for what types of conflicting situations!  Your entire family will benefit from you drawing this fine line…once you know how.
  
  
• How to prevent sibling lawsuits – and more importantly – how to prevent things from getting so bad that anyone would even consider such a thing!
  
  
• How to understand where your parent’s emotions may be coming from, what to do about them, and how angry arguments can be easily avoided!
  
  
• How to dissolve intense levels of unspoken fear from your parent, your siblings, or even your own kids!
  
  
• How to start planning for the future today and prevent painful disagreements tomorrow!
  
  
• How to properly conduct family planning meetings with upmost efficiency, delicacy, and respect to everyone involved!
  
  
• How to handle “worst case scenario” elder conflicts even if Mom or Dad absolutely refuse to participate!  (Note – If you have a stubborn parent who needs your help, this section is for you)
  
  
• Seven quick-start tips for dealing with family conflicts about elders smoothly and with as little resistance as possible!
  
  

And that's just a small sample of what you'll find.

Each section of this guide has been carefully designed to short-cut your path to dealing with family conflicts and resolve them as quickly (and painlessly) as possible.

I don't care if you've never dealt with family conflicts before.

Or if you're just starting to realize there’s a problem.

Or if you've already fought tooth-and-nail with your family over your Mom or Dad’s condition.

Or even if you haven't got a clue WHAT to do about your conflicts at all.

None of that matters.

The ONLY thing that does matter right now... is your desire to do what’s best for you and your family.

To take that first, small, easy step that will empower you -- finally -- with professional techniques, methods and tactics that will drastically reduce your stress levels 10-fold. 

Are you ready to get started?

The price is only $9.99 for this instant digital eBook, but you couldn’t commit to buying it right now if you tried.  In fact, no one can. 

 

The only way you can read this professional mediators guide to family conflicts to download it right now, read it for a…

 

30 Day
Risk-Free Trial

 

…and make your decision a month from today.  That means, you can be reading this volume in literally 5 minutes from right now, with absolutely nothing to lose.

 

Pick it up, test it out, and treat it as your own.  Read it over a few times, and if you do not feel that it has helped you figure out exactly what you need to do, then you don’t pay.  All you have to do is email your return to us, and you will be promptly returned every penny.

 

Is this a financial risk for me?  Yes, of course it is.  But I will trust you just as I have trusted hundreds of others I’ve helped with their aging parent issues over the course of my professional life.  And I will trust that you will be honest, as I have been with you.

 

I do this because I know that the information inside this guide is truly the real thing.  This is decades of combined professional experience as a nurse and as a lawyer served up in an instantly downloadable, digital form…meaning you can take advantage of this easy-to-implement tactical game plan for approaching family conflicts quickly, and take the edge off your family nightmare once and for all.

 

But, that’s not all.

 

What I didn’t mention earlier was that this volume “How To Handle Family Conflicts About Elders” is part of a 9 volume series titled “The Boomer’s Guide To Aging Parents”…a complete and comprehensive book that walks you through handling just about every issue you could face...now that your parent’s aging has started taking a toll on your every-day life.

 

PLUS: When you start your 30 day risk-free trial today, you will also receive an additional bonus, absolutely free:

 

 

“Top Seven Quick-Start Tips For Finding A Good Lawyer”

 

 

I want to give you this quick-tip guide for free, regardless if you decide to keep my eBook volume or not…just for giving my work a fair shot.

 

Here’s How It Works…

 

When you click on the order button below, you'll go to my secure order page for your credit card information (You can also order by mail or PayPal if you choose, but my special free eBook offer is only available with credit/debit card purchases.) When you use my secure order form, you'll be able to download the book immediately as an Adobe Acrobat PDF file.

Your transaction is secure—using our secure server, your order information is transmitted using the latest SSL encryption technology to ensure complete and total privacy and security. The transaction will be billed to you as “Aging Parents” with our toll-free U.S. phone number included.

The whole process takes just a few minutes and you'll be reading your book in about 5 minutes.

When you get the book, scan it a couple of times and read the parts that jump out at you right away—then go back and read it cover to cover.

Whatever happens, you'll use this information over and over, in detail, as you're dealing with conflicts, talking to your parent, and keeping your family together through these troublesome times.

 

 

If you have any questions about this eBook package, just email support@agingparents.com.

 

Wishing you success with your aging parent issues,

 

         Carolyn L. Rosenblatt , R.N., Attorney at Law

 

 

 

Read Our Testimonials

 

 

"Carolyn Rosenblatt is extremely hardworking and thorough in whatever she does. We are amazed with her writings and how beneficial they are in helping us to understand the complications and difficulties dealing with the elderly. Thank you Carolyn---there is such a great need for your services!"

-Nancy and Albert

 

“As a Professional Geriatric Care Manager I found Carolyn’s chapter on “How to Handle a Dangerous Older Driver” unparalleled in the current literature and helpful to me with my own parents. Her step-by-step approach gives real-life practical solutions, not just theory. Every adult child of older parents should read this chapter”

Laurel Etheridge, CMC
Eldercare Services
www.Eldercareanswers.com

 

"Dear Dr. Davis and Carolyn:
 
Your professional and compassionate assistance provided tremendous help to me in pursuing better care for my mom.
 
You were able to listen to all the information I provided regarding my mom's situation and distill it into a meaningful letter that I could send to various people who oversee the care of elders.
 
I knew in advance that you would provide excellent assistance because my friends' whom I adore and respect recommended you.
 
Thank you for caring about my mom even though you haven't met her; that just shows how genuinely you care for the health and well-being of elders."
 
Sincerely,
Susan

 

"Carolyn and Dr Davis are experts in the field of mediation. I have personally witnessed their work with elderly clients and their families. Through their expertise and detailed inquiry they were able to assist the client and their children through a difficult process."

 

-E. Tina Chepick RN GCM (Geriatric Care Manager, RN)

 

"I am always blown away with the way you can cut things to the chase and see what is really going on. It is very hard for me to focus and not get caught up in all the details and miss seeing the clear picture. I have learned a lot about myself from your feedback."

 

-Mary C. (Recent Client)

 

"My 80 year old mother has early stage Alzheimer's Disease, yet STILL has very clear ideas of her own!  What a pleasure to work with caring professionals willing to make the effort to really listen to her, to her concerns and wishes - as well as advising me in my role as caretaker, healthcare proxy and power of attorney.  With the huge workload and responsibilities of care-taking, (plus pressures from both immediate and extended family,)  I can't imagine how we'd manage without the ongoing support and guidance my mother and I receive from Ms. Rosenblatt and Dr. Davis. Thank you, both."

 

-Suzanne C. (Recent Client)

 

"I talked to seven different lawyers in trying to figure out what kind of help to get for my father. No one seemed to be able to really tell me what I needed.  Carolyn, you were the most practical of anyone.  You were amazingly helpful."

 

-Jane H., MD

 

 

 

 

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