Dear Friend,

 

Please take a moment to review the Wikipedia article attached to the link below:

 

The Shocking Story Of George Russell Weller

 

What you are looking at is the result of what happens when an adult child does nothing as their aging parent slowly reveals signs that they have lost the ability to drive.

 

 

My name is Carolyn Rosenblatt, and after 30 years of practicing law in upstate California - representing hundreds of clients who were injured in car accidents - I’ve seen the absolute worst of what a dangerous older driver can do to other people…

…watched as adult children struggled with merely suggesting taking away the keys…

…and heard every excuse an older driver can make (even after I’ve taken their sworn testimony in lawsuits personally), saw them blame someone else, or even swear they couldn’t remember what happened after they caused a fatal accident!

As a nurse, I’ve grown a deep understanding of dementia (especially what it can do to your Mom or Dad’s memory) and know exactly how hard it can be for you to approach him or her with such a touchy subject…without going out-of-your-mind yourself! 

In all my years of helping people in your shoes, it’s become painstakingly clear that most adult children tend to avoid this issue completely.  You wouldn't believe how many times I've seen elders suffer for months (if not years) from seemingly "minor" accidents - leading to countless doctor's visits, bills, lost work and wages, etc - just because their child never took responsibility when the time was right.

There comes a time in every adult child’s life where you must step up and take control.  This means that, if you really care about them, you need to be responsible for helping them accept their limitations, no matter how scary this may seem at first, and no matter how much they are in denial about their limitations.

 

     The problem is, you must essentially ask them to “give up” their freedom, which no one wants to do.

Even though you know it’s what’s best for their own good… you truly want to help them… and your intentions are selfless in every single way…

 

It makes no difference.

 

In their eyes, they may see you as robbing them of their independence, and forcing them come to terms with their own mortality.  They see themselves as “just fine”. Naturally, they may “fight” back.

 

You MUST do this delicately, and with tactful regard.

 

Just imagine how your Mom or Dad would react if you suddenly took the keys away…telling them they were too incompetent to drive…and forbade them from ever getting behind the wheel again.

 

(Or maybe you already did, and that’s why you’re here.)

 

     You already know that such a shocking realty-check can easily spark a heated battle, or worse, and that’s something you want to avoid at all costs.  Ideally, you want the conversation to be as painless as humanly possible.

 

This can be the most difficult conversation you will ever have in your life…

 

…or it can be the most productive.

 

It’s entirely up to you.

 

Here’s What I Have For You:  The culmination of over 70 years of combined nursing, psychological and legal experience taking you by the hand and walking you through handling the entire issue.

 

You will be spoon-fed all the short-cuts you need to solve your most immediate (and most difficult) problems…

 

…from starting the conversation...

 

…all the way to a successful resolution with as little conflict, pain, and emotionally charged confrontation as possible.

 

I’ve tackled this problem in my private consulting practice…and after discussing almost the exact same issues with multiple people in your shoes…it has become crystal-clear what you need to know (and what you need to do) to get your situation resolved.

 

And it’s all here in step-by-step form.

I reveal everything, including:

 

• How to assess an elder’s driving capabilities without them ever knowing!  (Hint - This trick alone can avoid hours of long, painful arguments with your aging loved one.)
  
  
• A new (and simple) method for approaching driving restrictions - so delicately and effective – that slashes your risk of a conflict in half!
  
  
• A quick start-up tip for hiring licensed professionals to objectively evaluate your elder’s driving needs – so easy to use – you’ll blast through confusing “qualification barriers” fast and know exactly who to call… right from the start!
  
  
• How to determine what time of day is safest for your elder to drive!  (Hint – This simple secret gets right-to-the-point…and makes restricting your elder driver 10 times easier!
  
  
• How to slowly limit your elder’s driving habits so they don’t feel angry, isolated or alone!
  
  
• How to safely (and easily) increase driving observation (amongst family members) before it interferes with your daily life…even if you live across the country!
  
  
• The 7 “secret” aging symptoms proven to botch driving performance…and how to spot these life-threatening “red flags” fast!  (Note – This process is incredibly easy, once you know what to look for…)
  
  
• How to properly select a family “agent” to assist with your elder’s transportation!
  
  
• How to safely plan for what happens to loved ones with dementia (especially Alzheimer’s) when assessing an elder’s driving habits…and how to detect subtle warning signs - even during the confusing “early to middle stages” – that most people miss!  (Hint – This incredibly gray area becomes much easier to understand…once you have a timeline in mind.)
  
  
• Relax, knowing you won’t have to “wait until there’s an accident” to realize your elder can no longer drive and experience peace of mind before it’s too late!
  
  
• What little-known sign to look for that uncover driving incompetence…even if you’re never with the elder on the road!  (Hint – This has nothing to do with your parent physically…but you’ll be shocked to discover how obvious – and alarming – this indicator really is.)
  
  
• The Top-3 best times to talk to your elders about their driving disabilities in a natural – and totally unthreatening - manner…steering you clear of  potential anger and resentment thwarting your good intentions!
  
  
• How to seamlessly communicate respect for your elder’s struggle to give up driving for good…and how to support them along the way!
  
  
• How to find low-cost driving services locally, so that your elder won’t be without a ride!  (Note – There are  services available in many communities, if you know who to call)
  
  
• The SINGLE most important thing you can do to communicate with your elder without upsetting them…and the worst sin you could ever commit – an unforgivable act that can destroy your relationship!
  
  
• How to determine the best living situation for an isolated elder if transportation isn’t available…and what else these options provide that most people unknowingly ignore!
  
  
• Power Struggles Exposed:  How to handle an elder who  absolutely refuses to give up driving with this straightforward, 5-Level, step-by-step approach to resolving conflict with your difficult elder for good!
  
  
• How to prevent “ganging up” on your parent when involving a 3rd party person, and pave the path of least resistance so your conversation flows smoothly…even if they’ve always felt threatened before!
  
  
• How to find the right professional mediator if things get ugly!  (Hint – This is what I do professionally and I uncover lots of “insider” secrets I know…saving you from what may be the most heart-breaking conflict of your life.)
  
  
• The correct way to conduct a family intervention!  This hyper-touchy subject can be an explosive nightmare if not handled properly…but you’ll be ready to handle it with confidence, once you learn how it's done!
  
  
• The 3 most dishonest acts committed by an adult child that – while attempting to help – can inflict trust-shattering emotional damage in their elder’s heart...and how to prevent this from happening to YOU!
  
  
• How to effectively use legal means – as a last resort – while drastically reducing blame, guilt or confrontation!  This technique can be your lifeline, helping you NOT be stonewalled when all else has failed and you fear for Mom or Dad’s immediate safety!
  
  
• A last stop legal tactic that gives you full legal control over your parent - if Mom or Dad becomes a serious danger to themselves and others …giving you a secret security plan that very few people really consider.  (Note – This topic is explained in critical detail - for 3 pages – to prepare you for this “worst case scenario”…before things get out of control.)
  
  

 

And a ton more.  Like how to help yourself (from legal, mental, even emotional headaches about your aging parents overwhelming your personal life)...

...what clinical psychologists know about "elder mediation" that few adult children ever discover (these are the subconscious, hard-to-believe motivations behind the elder’s ability to resist your help to the point of hatred)...

...the one authority that NO ONE in the history of driving has ever NOT respected...

...and 10 proven tactics to take action NOW.

     Each section of this guide has been carefully designed to short-cut your path to dealing with a dangerous older driver and resolve your conflicts as quickly (and painlessly) as possible.

I don't care if you've never approached the issue before.

Or if you're just starting to see the problem.

Or if you've already fought tooth-and-nail with your Mom or Dad over their driving limitations.

Or even if you haven't got a clue WHAT you are going to say.

None of that matters.

The ONLY thing that does matter right now... is your desire to do what’s best for you and your family.

To take that first, small, easy step that will empower you -- finally -- with professional techniques, methods and tactics that will drastically reduce your stress levels 10-fold. 

Are you ready to get started?

The price is only $9.99 for this instant digital eBook, but you couldn’t commit to buying it right now if you tried.  In fact, no one can. 

 

The only way you can read this professional “insiders” guide to handling dangerous older drivers is to download it right now, read it for a…

 

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Pick it up, test it out, and treat it as your own.  Read it over a few times, and if you do not feel that it has helped you figure out exactly what you need to do, then you don’t pay.  All you have to do is email your return to us, and you will be promptly returned every penny.

 

Is this a financial risk for me?  Yes, of course it is.  But I will trust you just as I have trusted hundreds of others I’ve helped with their aging parent issues over the course of my professional life.  And I will trust that you will be honest, as I have been with you.

 

I do this because I know that the information inside this guide is truly the real thing.  This is decades of combined professional experience as a nurse and as a lawyer served up in an instantly downloadable, digital form…meaning you can take advantage of this easy-to-implement tactical game plan for approaching nursing homes quickly, and take the edge off your dangerous older driver dilema for good!

 

But, that’s not all.

 

What I didn’t mention earlier was that “How To Handle A Dangerous Older Driver” is part of a 9 volume series called “The Boomer’s Guide To Aging Parents”…a complete and comprehensive book that walks you through handling just about every issue a Baby Boomer could face as their parent’s aging starts taking a toll on their every-day lives.

 

PLUS: When you start your 30 day risk-free trial today, you will also receive an additional bonus from another volume – Absolutely Free:

 

 

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This quick-tip guide can be a life saver for your entire family, especially if your parent is loosing the capability to drive, which means loosing the ability to manage other important things on their own.

 

I want to give you this quick-tip guide for free, regardless if you decide to keep my eBook volume or not.

 

Here’s How It Works…

When you click on the order button below, you'll go to my secure order page for your credit card information (You can also order by mail or PayPal if you choose, but my special free eBook offer is only available with credit/debit card purchases.) When you use my secure order form, you'll be able to download the book immediately as an Adobe Acrobat PDF file.

Your transaction is secure—using our secure server, your order information is transmitted using the latest SSL encryption technology to ensure complete and total privacy and security. The transaction will be billed to you as “Aging Parents” with our toll-free U.S. phone number included.

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When you get the book, scan it a couple of times and read the parts that jump out at you right away—then go back and read it cover to cover.

Whatever happens, you'll use this information over and over, in detail, as you're dealing with choosing a nursing home, talking to your parent, and keeping your family together through these troublesome times.

 

 

If you have any questions about this eBook package, just email support@agingparents.com.

 

Wishing you success with your aging parent issues,

 

         Carolyn L. Rosenblatt , R.N., Attorney at Law

 

 

 

 

 

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